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Choosing Your DIY Wedding Floral Arrangements

Embracing Your Style and Skills



Welcome back, fellow DIY enthusiasts! With your mood boards and color schemes in place, painting a vivid picture of your wedding’s aesthetic, we now shift our focus to a crucial aspect of your floral journey – selecting arrangements that not only align with your vision but also match your comfort level and design skills. As we continue our series on DIY wedding florals, let’s dive into how you can choose arrangements that reflect the beauty of your theme and palette, and are joyfully within your realm of crafting. Whether you’re a budding novice or have a knack for design, our Bulk Botanical DIY Buckets offer a range of possibilities to bring your dream wedding to life.



Embracing Your Inner Floral Designer

Now, I hear you asking, “Can I really pull this off?” Absolutely, you can! Remember, you’re working with nature’s most beautiful creations. Designing your own arrangements for your wedding adds a personal, heartfelt touch and creates memories that last a lifetime. Sure, professional florists bring expertise, but your personal connection to each bloom and arrangement makes your big day uniquely yours. Whether it’s creating memories with loved ones or enjoying a moment of tranquility among the flowers, this experience is about more than just aesthetics.



A beautiful spring DIY bouquet of locally grown peonies, ranunculus, snapdragons, and foliage in a bright free form palette.


How Much to DIY?

Now, while some elements of floral design are more accessible, like arranging blooms in a vase, others might require more skills and tools, like crafting an arbor arrangement or a flower crown. If you’re in Northern Virginia, Washington DC, or Maryland, our “Garden Gathered Hybrid” option is ideal for this mix. It allows for a seamless blend of DIY enthusiasm and professional artistry – perhaps you’re comfortable creating table arrangements with our Bulk Botanical DIY Buckets, while I take care of the more intricate designs, such as personals and arbors. This approach ensures that your wedding florals are a beautiful amalgamation of your creativity and our expert craftsmanship.


Seasonal Flower Selection: Embracing Mother Nature’s Timeline

Every season in our vibrant Mid-Atlantic region brings its own floral wonders. Our Bulk Botanical DIY Buckets, filled with the best seasonal blooms, offer a delightful surprise element. Whether you’re planning a spring celebration with tulips and ranunculus or a cozy fall wedding with chrysanthemums and grasses, let the season inspire your color palette and floral choices.


Understanding the nuances of seasonal blooms is crucial, especially when incorporating them into your DIY wedding plans. Each flower has its unique vase life, a vital factor to consider as you design your arrangements. Remember, as we’ve discussed in our previous posts about the logistics of DIY wedding flowers, the way you store your arrangements can significantly impact their longevity. Keeping your floral creations in a cool environment is essential for prolonging their beauty. Woody-stemmed flowers, like hydrangeas, typically have a longer vase life, while softer-stemmed spring flowers such as daffodils or tulips, more sensitive to heat, may only last around 3 to 5 days.


Don’t forget to take a peek at our ‘What’s in Bloom’ post for insights into what you might expect if you’re opting for our DIY blooms. Doing a little homework on the potential flowers in your buckets, particularly regarding their vase life, can really pay off. Knowing what blooms are likely to grace your arrangements during the month of your wedding will help you plan more effectively. This way, you can tailor your floral designs with confidence, ensuring they stay resplendent throughout your special day.


Designing Ceremony Flowers: Crafting the Perfect Backdrop

Crafting the Perfect Backdrop: Designing Ceremony Flowers

Your ceremony flowers are integral to setting the stage where your vows will be exchanged. They are more than just decorations; they symbolize the space where two lives unite. To create a visually stunning altar, play with varying heights and dimensions. Consider incorporating pedestals, potted plants, and unique props to add depth and texture to your space. These elements work together to craft an awe-inspiring backdrop for your most cherished moment. And don’t forget, repurposing these flowers at your reception not only saves costs but also maintains a seamless floral theme, weaving a continuous thread of beauty throughout your wedding day.


For those feeling adventurous and ready to take their floral creativity to the next level, I have something special to share. In my A La Carte offerings, I often use a unique technique for crafting arbor pieces, which you too can adapt for your ceremony. I’ve put together a video demonstrating how I create what I affectionately call a ‘floral sausage.’ This technique involves using chicken wire and Oshun pouches, but it can also be adapted using water-soaked straw as a filler. This method, widely used in sustainable floristry, avoids the use of micro-plastic floral foam, embracing eco-friendliness. Plus, all you need for installation are zip ties – that’s right, it’s incredibly easy, and I’m excited to guide you through it. Watch the video to see how you can incorporate this technique into your ceremony florals, adding a professional touch to your DIY wedding.



A La Carte Arbor Floral Design


Centerpieces: Crafting the Heart of Your Reception

Centerpieces aren’t just decorative elements; they’re the soul of your reception tables, creating an ambiance that enhances the experience for you and your guests. When designing for round tables, consider low, round arrangements that foster an intimate atmosphere. For long tables, such as 8’ or 10’, opt for designs that respect the space: 16” wide arrangements for the former and larger, 24” wide ones for the latter. Space-efficient designs like bud vases are a favorite in the DIY wedding world due to their simplicity, but don’t shy away from exploring garlands with florals or a series of smaller arrangements for variety and visual interest.


The choice of vessels can significantly impact your budget and design. Thrift stores and Facebook Marketplace are treasure troves for recycled vessels that add unique character to your settings. Your approach to mechanics also plays a crucial role. If you’re embracing a more natural, free-flowing style, any vessel that catches your eye will do – just arrange the flowers at heights that please you. But if you’re aiming for a more refined, controlled look, opaque vessels with a ball of chicken wire inside are your best bet. This method offers greater command over stem placement, ensuring your designs are as polished as they are personal. Remember, whether it’s a wild cascade of blooms or a meticulously designed piece, your centerpieces should reflect the essence of your celebration.





Bouquets and Wearables: Personal Touches that Shine

Your bouquet isn’t just an accessory; it’s a highlight of your wedding day ensemble. It deserves a bit of extra attention and investment, especially since it will star in countless photographs. While your bouquet can be a showstopper with a blend of exquisite blooms, the wedding party arrangements can take a more understated approach. A simple yet elegant mix of flowers and filler greens like baby’s breath or ferns can create a harmonious balance. Remember, it’s not just about the flowers; it’s about the overall presentation. Get creative with wrapping techniques – ribbons, burlap, or even twine can add a rustic or elegant touch, depending on your wedding style.


For boutonnieres and corsages, durability is as important as aesthetics. They need to complement your wedding theme while being sturdy enough to survive hugs, dances, and all the joyful movement of the day. Some flowers naturally lend themselves better to wearables; they can withstand being out of water and maintain their shape and freshness. If you’re considering crafting your own boutonnieres, corsages, or even flower crowns, it’s essential to choose the right blooms.


For those diving into DIY wearables, a little research goes a long way. Hydration chambers can be a lifesaver for keeping these delicate creations fresh. Susan McLeary, a renowned expert in floral wearables, offers valuable insights on how to ensure your floral wearables stay vibrant throughout the day. Her techniques, detailed in her blog here, are a great resource for anyone taking on this rewarding challenge. Remember, knowledge of your chosen blooms’ behavior is key – some flowers thrive as wearables, while others may wilt quickly. Be sure to consider this as you plan, especially for important pieces like boutonnieres and flower crowns. By choosing the right flowers and employing expert techniques, you can ensure these personal floral touches remain as fresh and beautiful as the rest of your day.





The Big Picture of Choosing Your DIY Wedding Floral Arrangements

In the end, your DIY wedding flowers are a reflection of your love story. Whether you’re surrounded by lush peonies or elegant dahlias, remember to enjoy the process. And if it all seems a bit overwhelming, I’m here to help guide you through this floral journey.

As we wrap up this guide, take a moment to visualize your wedding day here in Northern Virginia, Washington DC, or Maryland, adorned with the flowers we’ve lovingly chosen and you’ve lovingly arranged. Feel that sense of accomplishment? That’s the beauty of DIY.


Next up, we’ll tackle an essential aspect of floral planning: estimating stem counts for each type of arrangement.






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